ba KA la
and you know we are hella smart for this one: essentially to be “bakla” (3rd gender or two spirit if you will) is to be the bridge, the bridge builder, as KA here is the connector for the male and female spectrum.
ba ka la in other words is COMPLETE INTEGRATION.
in other words, end and BEGINNING OF THE STORY is WE’RE ALL BAKLA!
word from your lola!